Well...Simo....maybe you're too loud for anyone to answer what you wanna hear.
Besides, I'm not sure you wouldn't trigger some negative move from the censorship authority if this site turns out openly as a mating room!!! Beware...big brother is watching us :)
Anyhow...apart from the fact that you are now single (I feel sad for you, of course, so I'd like to join your call and help you), I guess the right question is "why are you not staying on this site so we can chat".
I know it's not the right thread to dissert on that one, but still...any reader is welcome to provide his/her views hereby.
My own opinion is that this site still miss the word of mouth effect...and because nobody like to be lonely on a forum, they (we) just go!
We can certainly make it happen by sustaining a good atmosphere, decent chats, funny posts, practical advices...and advertise more and more!! Thousands of people are looking to relocate to Dubai. They google a few keywords...and guess what? they do find the link for here, but it doesn't take long before they realize it's a no man's land (no woman's land as well!!).
Sharing video is not what people need in my opinion. Youtube is not banned here.
Building a community of friends with blogs, etc...? there are Facebook and Myspace.
All those meet the puropose purpose.
I'd rather say we guys ought to be innovative...if not cheeky! It took only a few weeks for Ibibo to be banned (for those who enjoy a free access, check it out). The number of new profiles (from Dubai) has been exponential...and the contents probably too much open. But it happened within weeks. I witnessed that by myself. until censorship struck last week!
We need a site with membera browsing facility. And of course, means to get in touch, through forums like this one. I think there should be only one subject of discussion, not multiple threads in one subject. It would facilitate access to the right posts by people who just pass by. Something similar to Dubizzle maybe...
Anyway, I live it to you now...let us know what you think...why people are not there!!!
Thx for reading down to that part! ;)